What I Look for in Students
Private lessons are not magic pills that will make you better. If you're going to get your money's and time's worth out of lessons with me, there are a few things you need to be prepared to do.
One is change what you're doing now, even if it's been successful. If you're not willing to change, if you think everything is ok the way it is, that's fine. But then there's no need to come to lessons, because you already know how to do it your way. I will teach you the skills and techniques that are used by the top players in the game. That may mean some small tweaks, it may mean starting over. If that's not for you, I'm not the coach for you.
Another is to think. Yes, for a while I will be telling you what to do. But from day one I want your brain engaged, so you understand what we're trying to do. After all, the fact that I know how to do things is great. But I'm not the one who will be in the circle or at the plate or in the field. You will. That means while it's nice I know what to do, you have to know what to do, and how to make corrections when you're struggling. You can only do that by paying attention and learning. At some point I will quit telling you what to do and start asking you what you should do.
Along with that comes being engaged in what we're doing. That means trying your best every time, and working to make improvements not only at ever lesson but more importantly between each lesson. In softball, as in life, showing up isn't enough. Just having me as your coach won't make you better on its own. You have to work diligently and enthusiastically on what we're doing. Do that, and you will progress quickly. Take the lazy way and we may get there too, but it will take a lot longer.
When you come to me I don't expect you to know everything or be able to do everything. If you did, what would you need me for? I also don't expect you to pick it up immediately, although it's nice when that does happen. What I do expect is your desire to find out how good you can be. Bring that and we'll enjoy the journey together.